See? I told you I wouldn’t bombard with you posts updating my “Get Healthy” journey! Alright, so the delay between the last post and this one was a little ridiculous. But to my credit, between the holidays & my sudden need to redecorate 5 rooms in my house (no I’m not exaggerating), I’ve been a little overwhelmed. Ok, a lot overwhelmed. My road to being healthier is coming along. Slowly, but better than nothing, I suppose. The one thing that I’ve really stuck to & am absolutely, obsessively, head-over-heels, loving is Pilates. Seriously you guys, it’s amazing. I’ve never been athletic & am uncoordinated to an embarrassing degree. Any sports that I do enjoy tend to be solo ventures… tennis, pool, darts… Wait, are those last two legitimately sports? I think they’re more like drinking games. Whatever. The point is, I do better when I’m pushing myself & not worrying about other people. Therefore, working on the reformer has been right up my alley. There’s, at most, one other person that I’m working alongside, and the end goal is just to work hard on myself & getting my form correct. I love it. Love, love, love, it. I never thought that I’d love something so much that leaves me in pain for 3 days afterwards. Who knew?
I don’t know if you remember me telling you, but the studio where I do Pilates, Results Fitness, is owned by one of my good friends, Molly Thompson. She’s always been an instructor at other gyms & is just so good. You know how you can just tell when someone is in a career/life path that they were born to follow? Like, the whole thing just comes naturally to them? Yeah, that’s how it is with Molly & fitness. She knows her stuff. I was so happy for her when a couple of years ago she finally opened up her own studio. I’m late to the party in finally taking lessons with her, but better late than never, right? The studio is actually in a barn on her property. It’s fun & cozy & has zero intimidation. Perfect, right? Molly wanted to create a gym where anyone can come and feel comfortable. You don’t have to wear fancy clothes or makeup & no one’s comparing themselves to you. She has clients of all ages & abilities. Everyone from beginners like myself, to professional athletes. Yes, seriously. Over the past month, I’ve worked with her on a couple of photo shoots & thought I’d share some of the shots here. If you’ve ever been curious about Pilates, I highly, highly, recommend checking it out with Molly. She makes it fun & low-key & I guarantee if you try it, you’ll stick with it. Oh & lest you think I’m writing all of this because she’s my friend… nope. Never in a million years did I think I’d like working out. I figured if I like it this much, then it’s only fair if I passed along the info.
Here’s her website – Results Fitness
Here’s a link to her Facebook page. She’s posting a lot of the pictures that we did & throws in fun facts and some deals too. Go “like” it! – Results on Facebook
Warning – personal, potentially boring, post ahead…
So, this isn’t necessarily a fun post to type, but it’s an honest, much needed one. It’s probably no secret that having a baby in your midish-late thirties is a little harder on your body. It’s even more so if it’s your third child (all from within your 30′s) and you weren’t in perfect shape beforehand. To be fair to myself, I’d actually lost weight before I became pregnant with Matilda, so I was “ok”, but I still wasn’t where I should’ve been or better said, where I wanted to be. A few months before I became pregnant with Matilda, I’d decided that I was done with trying to deal with my body in the shape it was in and that I needed to do something about it. As unexciting as it is, I joined Weight Watchers online and dude, it totally worked. It wasn’t fun, but it wasn’t completely miserable either. I lost 17 pounds and oh man, it was so much more fun, not to mention easier, to get dressed each day! Of course then Matilda came along and here I am again with pretty much the exact same body that I had before I lost the 17 pounds. Obviously this is my body’s happy weight. Mine? Yeah, not so much. I know that you’re supposed to say you’re losing weight for your health (which, I mean, duh, I am), but I’m going to be 100% honest here, I want to do it so that it’s fun to wear clothes again. Choosing my outfit based on what’s going to best hide my unhappy areas is just no fun. I’m over it. O-ver. It. So, I made a plan this past week and started setting it all up this weekend.
The first thing that I wanted to do before I seriously started worrying about losing weight was to be done nursing Matilda. I wasn’t going to jeopardize that whole process just to fit into my skinny jeans. Recently, I felt that both she and I were ready to move on, so I started that whole process at the end of the week. Here I sit on Sunday night and Matilda’s been only bottle-fed all day long. It’s bittersweet because she’s my last baby, but oh, I’m so glad to have my body back. Not to mention the fact that she still woke up at least once a night to eat. Now, Dustin & I can share that responsibilty and I might finally start getting a full night’s sleep. I’m still trying to process the fact that I can count on my 2 hands how many full nights of sleep I’ve had in the past 9 months. I know that bad sleep habits definitely mess with your weight, so it’ll be interesting to see how that helps.
This morning, I officially weighed myself and took about a bajillion measurements. You guys. Ugh. That was just really painful. But, it’s SO necessary. Not to sound all cheesy, but how can you know how far you’ve gone if you don’t know where you started? So, yeah. Stats have been officially counted and I’m ready to go. The nice thing (hey, positivity!) is that they’re all nice, even numbers, so that’ll make it easy to calculate my differences. It’s the little things, yo.
The final two pieces of the puzzle are the hardest for me. Obviously, I had to mentally prepare myself to start Weight Watchers again. I only did it online last time, but I’m debating going to meetings too this time around. I don’t know. Does anyone have any opinion on that? Anyway, for the time being, I’ll be using the app on my phone to keep me accountable. That whole process starts tomorrow (Monday) and I’m not looking forward to it, but at least I know it works and that helps. The second thing that I did this weekend was to finally sign up for personal training on the Pilates Reformer with my good friend, Molly. She started her own gym, Results Fitness, a couple of years ago and she’s getting amazing results for people (apt name then, yes?). She recently added the PPS Deluxe Apparatus and I honestly can’t wait to try it out. I’m making no promises, but I might throw in some treadmill time too. Baby steps.
So, there it is. I don’t plan on having check-ins or before and after pictures, but I’m sure I’ll give you little updates here and there on my progress. Let’s be honest here, it’s not like I’m the Queen of frequent blogging anyway. The next time I post I may be at my goal weight. HA!
Just for the fun of it, here’s a picture of Matilda and I from earlier this summer. Thanks to my sister, Courtney, for taking the camera away from me and getting this shot. Oh & I actually want to show you some of our amazing family pictures that we just had done, but I’ll save those for their own post. Night!
The only thing that’s still left to do to finish my bedroom is to paint the dressers. While I work up the energy to tackle that project, I thought I’d give you a little peek. I actually might be changing up the lighting situation & I need to get new shams and pillowcases, so I guess it’s not 100% finished, but it’ll give you a good idea of where it’s all going. Even with the dressers in the state they’re in, it still looks a million times better than it did before. And to think, it only took 6 years for me to figure it all out.
PS – The crookedness of that second pillow is killing me!
When we found out we were having a third baby, I realized that my office situation was going to have to change. It was in a room upstairs that was perfect for an office, but unfortunately was going to be needed for another bedroom. I did think, for a bit, about having Jack & Finn share a room. Between their age difference & their very different sleeping habits though, I soon realized that it wasn’t going to be the best idea. Because of the layout of the rooms upstairs, it would be for the best if Jack moved into my office & the new baby moved into Jack’s room. Luckily, Jack thought that was a great idea. Phew! Of course once we had the bedrooms figured out, the next question was where my office was going to go. We eventually did some shuffling around downstairs & it’s now in what was originally the “grown-up” room. Since we did all the moving around while I was pregnant, nothing’s really been done to my office except putting the furniture in here. It’s just a jumbled mess of mismatched stuff with no cohesion or style whatsoever. I was going to try to make an art corner for the kids, but man, they’re messy and I really like the idea of having one room that’s all mine. Now that my bedroom’s pretty much finished, it’s time for me to jump in and get it looking good. I’ve already bought a new desk (even though my last one was awesome, just not what I needed anymore) and a cute filing cabinet. Since I’ve retired from photography, I don’t need as much stuff in my office as I used to and can simplify for a much prettier look. I’m sure it’ll be a million years before I get the after shots up, but here’s a look at what my office looked like before I started working on it. Honestly, except for the desk, it still looks like this. Ugh. I need to get to work!
Through those double (triple?) doors is the room where our pool table is. Sometimes the doors are open, sometimes not. Light floods through here if they are, which makes working on the computer a little tricky. That yellow cabinet is one of my favorite pieces of furniture, but I’m having an issue with where to put it right now. I’m going through a neutral/pale phase & it doesn’t really fit. Hmmm…
The two art cabinets are there on the right. If I do decide to keep the art stuff in here, Dustin’s going to build me one large cabinet to put everything in. Cohesion – hooray!
Also? I’ll be investing in a different table. Again, I was just working with pieces from different areas of the house.
Please ignore my filthy floors. Oy.
Yeah, I think there’s room for improvement here. Yikes, right? Like I said, I do love that vintage metal desk, it’s just that it’s not only built like a tank, but it’s about as big as one too. I’m going for something more sleek & streamlined.
I’m putting together a mood board, so stay tuned!
Yes, I’m still alive. Just buried under piles of laundry, housework, & children. Ok, maybe not a pile of children, but a pile of responsibilities pertaining to them. Anyway, I took this picture of Matilda & her big blue eyes in her exersaucer the other day & thought I’d share. She’s obviously changed a lot since the last time I posted, huh? I’m getting ready to start re-doing my office & my bedroom is, oh, about 80% finished. I still have to find the time (or is it energy?) to paint the dressers, but other than that it’s all set. Pret-ty exciting! I’ll post some before pictures of my office soon. Seriously. Until then, hopefully this little ray of sunshine will brighten your day.